People throw the term around, but don’t really know what it means. The most important trait of a narcissist is no conscience. They actually don’t care. They don’t have any feelings. They just want to be treated like a king or queen. They will treat you horribly and then blame you. They have it so twisted you begin to doubt yourself. They crave admiration. In reality, they are scared and lost. They never learned how to love themselves so they demand it from others. But, losing the real focus. You have to give love to receive it. They don’t know how to love. So, they settle for obedience. And, they will do anything to get it. It feels like love to them. I have heard these words. They will do whatever I tell them to. They swell up in pride. Therapists have said that they don’t want to deal with them. They are never wrong. It’s always someone else’s fault. Never theirs. If you are involved with a narcissist. Get help and get gone.
For additional reading, Preston Ni, M.S.B.A. writes in Psychologytoday.com: 10 Signs That You’re in a Relationship with a Narcissist.